Tie-Up Loose Ends
Sunday, May 10, 2009 at 7:13PM |
Kathleen Nadeau, Ph.D. Tie up loose ends so you don't get caught in a tangle
Have you ever had one of those days when you've been busy all day, but don't have much to show for it? Days when it may even be difficult to remember what you have done? These sorts of days are usually the result of bouncing from one thing to the other, rather than staying focused on one task until you’ve completed it. And the mental clutter that results from unfinished tasks distracts us even more from the task at hand. The result? Mental fatigue without much accomplishment.
Tie the Bow
Instead of bouncing from one thing to the next, make “tie the bow” your new mantra. I use “tie the bow” as a metaphor for completing a task down to the very last step – when you're wrapping a gift, it’s not done until you “tie the bow.” As I go through my day, I try to remain always conscious of staying on-track until I complete the last step of each task.
Mail the letter; don't just put it aside to mail later. File the paper; don't just put it in a pile of paperwork. Fold and put away the laundry; don't just leave it in the basket after it’s washed and dried. When a task is larger, the key is to break it down into defined smaller tasks that you can bring to completion so that you can check it off and “tie the bow.”
If you “tie the bow” more often, you'll earn a double-bonus. Not only will you get more accomplished, but you'll have a much less cluttered environment at home and at work. If you think about it, clutter is created through incomplete tasks – the jacket not hung up, the half-read mail left lying on the table, the glass or bowl not put in the dishwasher, the boxes never unpacked, and the countless items that clutter your environment because they have never been given a home. At work, incomplete tasks lead to the clutter of papers, reading material, and sticky notes.
The Skoach Approach
In Skoach, the last step of each task is to check it off as done. If you haven't completed your task when it’s time to move on to the next one, your last step should be to create a new task, and schedule a time to complete it.
The new task should have a different label that will indicate the remaining steps. For example, if you weren't able to complete your initial task called “Write Avery report,” your new task might be called something like, “Write conclusion and recommendations for Avery report.” Estimate how long this will take you, and schedule it in on your Skoach page. When you treat the remainder of an incomplete task as a new task, it’s no longer a hanging thread that clutters your day. It’s a new, scheduled task that is clearly defined. Then you can get on with your day and stay focused.




Reader Comments (8)
These articles keep me thinking of new ways to make my Skoach calendar work for me. They keep me focused and from becoming bored!
Thanks so much for a job well done Skoach team!
Great post. I stumbled to this post when Warren Whitlock provided the link from twitter.
You said it right. If one tries to chase two rabbits at the same time, they usually go home without catching any rabbit. It's important therefore to chase one rabbit at a time!
Kathleen, I love getting these useful tips. I've been delaying downloading my Skoach Beta for too long. Today is the day! Thanks for all that you do for us out here in cyber-space.
I love the idea of morphing the name of the task when you haven't completed it in total. It is much more encouraging. I feel like there has been some movement on the project and the next step is planned for ... instead of just forwarding the task ad infinitum.
Thanks - I, too, love these articles. And, also, appreciate the quick response and checking in from Moshe and Team (is there a team?).
Kathleen, I like so much these tips of yours. This is the forth one I think. Thanks!!!
Thanks for the tip,
I like these little articles. They come in very handy!!
greets,
Deborah
Kathleen,
Tying the bow- I think in pictures and, tying the bow will definitely be my new mantra. FYI, I tied the bow on our discussion re: colors and sent an email.
Susan
Hmm...I think I'll make my mantra "put away the tape." I always finish wrapping the gift...but then the paper roll, tape and scissors sit around for a few hours....or days.
Same problem w/ parenting/playtime. I remember to give 5/1 minute warnings before we need to get ready to go. Need to add in time to clean up the toys. :-)